As most of our blog readers know, I have been caring for my Dad's mother for the last 3 years. It has been an amazing journey that has taught me so much about life, love, and patience. My Grandmother has been a very big part of my life these last three years and even though she hasn't been able to say much for most of that time, she has shown me and taught me some amazing things. Every morning she wakes up, unable to care for herself, she still manages to offer smile after smile and can add so much joy to someone's life just by being in her presence. She is in her early 90's and has enough life left in her to share with 100 people. She loves life and has shown me how to appreciate it. Every day is a gift from God, a blessing, and we can't take it for granted. Maybe being so happy and content is her secret to a long life....
All I know for sure is that I am going to miss staying with her and having all of that quality time together. This morning when I dropped her off at her "club", it was like I was walking away from 3 years of committment and devotion. With the intention of continuing to care for her for the rest of her life, literally, it is very difficult to walk away knowing I will never be able to have those special moments with her again. Of course I will be able to visit and see her often, but when you take care of someone like I have my Grandmother, it is very intimate and such a special thing that can't be replaced. Like I said, it has been a journey.... not everyone would consider it a positive one, some may even think it is sad, but for me it has been a wonderful life changing experience and I will always be thankful to my Grandmother for that.
3 comments:
Kim... this brings tears to my eyes. I am/was so close to my grandmothers also. It is so hard to watch them "get old" right before your eyes. How lucky are you that you have this very precious, unique bond with your grandma that no one can ever take away. She is a very lucky lady!
See you Saturday!
This post just made my day...I love to hear about others who are close with their grandparents. So many of my friends don't have any grandparents left, and we are only lucky!
Like the others, I too enjoyed this post! I have told my mom numerous times that I would give up everything to take care of my Grandma if it ever comes down to it. I think it's amazing that you've had such an impact on your grandmother, and that she's had such an impact on you. I think it's great that you have that type of relationship with her, and it's good to know that I'm not the only one who thinks it's awesome to spend time and hang out with Grandma (and Grandpa too)! XOXO
Post a Comment